There certainly is much more to the story. Much more than I could ever put into an article. I'm sorry for what you went through.

In our case, there were many problems on both sides. I went to counseling (alone) three times, while she refused to go with me.

I stayed despite my better judgement for 15 years. We both made mistakes. We both changed. I can appreciate your take on the story. And I'm happy to agree to disagree.