Thanks for your comment! I actually think we agree but we’re just saying a similar idea in different ways. I do think each of us get to make up our own mind, however, the other person in the relationship certainly must agree if they stay in the relationship. Otherwise, just like you say, it’s time to find someone else who agrees with our boundaries.

I actually don’t mind if my partner has a celebrity crush, I just don’t want to hear about it. I think it’s pretty normal to find other people attractive.

But, I understand the confusion because of the title of the article.
I probably just wasn’t being very clear, which I appreciate you pointing out.

What I’m trying to say is that oral sex isn’t cheating for everyone because people have different boundaries.

Not sure if that clears anything up, but I still appreciate you reading and leaving your comments. :)