Lol good audience participation.
IMO, there are many attractive people in the world, and I believe attraction is a biological certainty that is in inescapable.
So, we’re all going to find other people attractive other than our partners. Nothing wrong with that.
I think it’s what we do with those thoughts, feelings, and the resulting behaviors that matter.
If the crush distracts you, then yes, cancel the coffee.
If it doesn’t distract you and you don’t feel like you’re disrespecting your partner, by all means, coffee it up. Lol